If you aren't able to work with other people, you should reconsider when you were planning to join a club. Being in a club means everything you do, you do with a gang of people. Teamwork is the core to achieve success in a society.

I think everything that led to what happened today was because of this stupid Chinese education of ours. We are afraid to confront or point out others' errors because we're afraid to offend them, which later causes misunderstandings between the two people as the person will continue to dislike the ways of the other person. Another point, when that specific person shares his negative thoughts to friends, they too will be affected. This soon causes a group of people versus a person who still doesn't know what he or she did to deserve all the - to be harsh - hatred.

It's so hard to actually express what I'm feeling now systematically, into a complete paragraphs. Every thought is mingled together...

But the main points I want to mention is, to maintain a well-functioned society, there should be trust and respect between members. If you think you cannot accept the ways of other people, tell them, negotiate, or else the mistake will not be corrected on itself. And please, respect those who are given the responsibility to lead. Without member's respect or trust, nothing can be done, conflicts will keep popping out because you never take the initiative to settle the previous conflicts. The conflicts will continue to roll up and it shall not disappear time by time.



Please la, we are all under his wing. Pay him some respect. He might be wrong, but he doesn't know that because none of you told him so.

And you, we work under you, but it doesn't mean you don't have to listen to our opinions. Look around you, observe more. Their reactions towards you are obvious, you're just not taking them in account.

Put yourself in others shoes. It'll make things easier to look through.